4-28-23 Resources for Talking to Your Kids About Identity, Dating, Sex, and Sexuality
/We have been doing a series with our high school students over the last 2 months called “The Road to a Great Love Story”. Our hope is that these couple of weeks would be one piece of a much bigger and more consistent conversation that you are having with your kids about all of these topics. There are so many voices talking to our kids about these things so we want to make sure they are regularly hearing our voice, and more importantly God’s voice, on these things.
Below is a list of resources to help equip you as you navigate these conversations with your kids. There is so much good stuff out there and this is only a small sample. I hope its helpful but I’d also love to hear resources that have been helpful to you.
Also, if you have a specific question that isn’t addressed here, or you’d like more help in a certain area, please don’t hesitate to ask!
BOOKS
Identity
The Dignity Revolution by Daniel Darling
FaceTime: Your Identity In A Selfie World by Kristen Hatton
Good Faith: Being a Christian When Society Thinks You’re Irrelevant and Extreme [different chapters cover a number of issues we’re talking about] by David Kinnaman and Gabe Lyons
Who Am I and Why Does it Matter? By Christopher Morphew
Sex
Mom, Dad…What’s Sex: Giving Your Kids A Gospel-Centered View of Sex and Our Culture
by Jessica Thompson and Joel Fitzpatrick
The Meaning of Marriage by Tim and Kathy Keller
Homosexuality
10 Questions Every Teen Should Ask [and Answer] about Christianity by Rebecca McLaughlin
Born Again This Way by Rachel Gilson
Is God Anti-Gay? by Sam Alberry
Gay Girl, Good God by Jackie Hill Perry
Messy Grace by Caleb Kaltenbach
The Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert by Rosaria Butterfield
What Does the Bible Really Teach About Homosexuality? by Kevin DeYoung
Gender
God and the Transgender Debate by Andrew Walker
Gender: A Conversation Guide For Parents and Pastors by Hunter Leavine
10 Questions Every Teen Should Ask [and Answer] about Christianity by Rebecca McLaughlin
Pornography
Good Pictures, Bad Pictures by Kristen Jenson
Dating
Age of Opportunity by Paul David Tripp
The Mingling of Souls by Matt Chandler
“We’re Just Friends” and Other Dating Lies by Chuck Milian
ARTICLES/ PAMPHLETS
Hey Kids, You Are Being Lied to About Sex by Cameron Cole
20 Quotes on Discussing Gender With Your Kids
Necessary Conversations About Sexuality and Gender
What’s Love Got to Do With It: Navigating Teen Dating by Kristen Hatton
Pamphlets Available at Church
Raising Sexually Healthy Kids by David White
How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex by William P. Smith
Explaining LGBTQ+ Identity to Your Child by Tim Geiger
Your Child Says “I’m Gay” by Tim Geiger
WEBSITES
Center For Parent/ Youth Understanding- Sexual Integrity Initiative
PODCASTS
7 Ways to Navigate a Sexually Shifting Culture
God’s Beautiful Design for Gender
VIDEOS