8-27-20 This Week in Faith

Pray for Me Campaign- Don’t forget to sign up to pray for a kindergarten through 12 grader this year. This is a great opportunity to pray for kids in our church and build relationships with them. Click here for more info and to sign up!

August Memory for Kids

Even though we are not doing Sunday school right now, we want to continue offering monthly memory verses and catechisms for you to work on as a family. We have been choosing our memory verses from different CD’s produced by Seeds Family Worship. The music is a great way for kids [and parents] to get Scripture stuck in their heads. Getting God’s Word into the heads and hearts of our kids is one of the most valuable things we can do for them. This year, we are using their CD I Believe. They are also producing an online family devotional for these verses that you can find HERE. If you don’t already do family devotions, this might be a great place to start.

John 3:36- Click here for the song.

New City Catechism Question 21 and Question 22

Student Ministry Schedule

We are meeting for small groups in the month of August and will reevaluate around Labor Day. The session voted to cancel the church’s retreats for the fall so we will not be going on our annual End of Summer Retreat but we are working on what we might be able to do in town for some extra connection with students.

Middle School- Wednesdays from 6:00-7:00PM at Faith [in the Plaza]

High School- Sundays from 6:00-7:00 at Faith [in the Plaza]

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The Back-to-School Supplies Parents Need

Even as our kids begin school again, and some things begin to normalize, there is still a sense of anxiety over waiting to see how this new normal will play out in our homes and community. We’ve bought all the back to school supplies, and classes have begun. But there are some fundamental things we need to bring with us into this school year that will equip us to lead our families in following God faithfully through this year. I especially like her first encouragement, Embrace the value of waiting.

Click here to read the article by Jen Pollock Michel.

A Family Worship Pep Talk

A new school year is an opportunity to make new commitments for the good of our families. Especially now, when many of our usual habits and schedules were scrapped, we have the chance to begin again to introduce what’s most important back into our daily/weekly routines. This is a good encouragement to address the common reasons and fears that keep us from family worship. These guys have written a new book on how to get started and sustain pursuing Jesus in our families called Family Discipleship: Leading Your Home Through Time, Moments, and Milestones [if you’re interested, it’s available at Faith in the resource center in the foyer or the library!]. As I pray for the families in our church, I pray our homes would be places where we seek Jesus together with our families and equip our kids for a lifetime of faith.

Click here to read the article by Matt Chandler and Adam Griffin.

The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters

This is a book review of a recently released secular book on the increase of young women making transgender transitions. While the review isn’t able to dive deeply into all the findings of the book, he makes some important observations. What’s driving this increase is not necessarily what we think. And the social pressures, as well as social opportunities, turn transgenderism into an appealing response to a common experience of growing girls feeling uncomfortable with their changing bodies. It’s an important observation because it illustrates the need for us as parents to be proactive in talking to our kids about their bodies and the value they possess from being made in the image of God. There are lots of great resources to help you begin, or continue, these vital conversations. We want our voices as parents to be first and loudest in our kids’ ears so they are shaped more by what God has to say about these things than what their friends or the internet has to say. 

Click here to read the article by Tim Challies.

Don’t Date in Isolation

This is another recent article by JD Greear on dating [see his article in last week’s blog post]. He covers an important topic we want our kids to understand about dating- they need wise, Godly community around them when they date because they will inevitably have blind spots while they are dating. Common thinking today would suggest you should follow your heart and not let anyone contradict it. But there’s so much a person can’t see when they are already infatuated with the other person. And students today have an incredible ability to compartmentalize their lives- a certain group of friends and rules to live by that are completely different at school, at home, and at church. I’d encourage you to read this article with your teenagers as they think about what’s most important to have in place as they think about beginning to date. So often, the tendency I see is for students, when they start dating someone, to disappear from church. But that’s the exact time they need healthy, Christian community the most. This is a good reminder of why.

Click here to read the article by JD Greear.

PODCAST: The Flip-Side of the Statistic: Teenagers Who Didn’t Leave the Church after Graduation

This is an interesting 40 minute interview with 2 guys, one a college student and one a recent college graduate, on what they see as the things from their high school experience with church and family that most influenced them sticking with their faith through college. So often we talk about the students that walk away from the faith after high school, but these guys flourished in their faith during their college years. I’ll admit the host is not the best interviewer, but it’s worth a listen to hear what these young men have to say was most vital to their faith, not just what the statistics say. 

Click here to listen to the podcast interview from Rooted Ministry.

8-21-20 This Week in Faith

Pray for Me 2020 Campaign

In September, we will begin year 2 of the Pray for Me Campaign. This is a great way for our church to pray for our young people, and connect our young people to the adults in our church. Prayer is a powerful means by which God works in the hearts of our kids. And research shows that relationships with multiple adults in the church are one of the strongest indicators of whether or not students will hold on to their faith after high school. Our goal through this campaign is to have every young person, kindergarten through 12 grade, prayed for by someone in our church. Our hope is that you will participate by praying for someone also. Not only is it a privilege for us to pray but an opportunity to fulfill our vows to help each other raise the kids of our church in the fear and admonition of the Lord. You can sign up to continue to pray for your prayer partner from last year, get partnered with someone new, or join the campaign for the first time by CLICKING HERE.

August Memory for Kids

Even though we are not doing Sunday school right now, we want to continue offering monthly memory verses and catechisms for you to work on as a family. We have been choosing our memory verses from different CD’s produced by Seeds Family Worship. The music is a great way for kids [and parents] to get Scripture stuck in their heads. Getting God’s Word into the heads and hearts of our kids is one of the most valuable things we can do for them. This year, we are using their CD I Believe. They are also producing an online family devotional for these verses that you can find HERE. If you don’t already do family devotions, this might be a great place to start.

John 3:36- Click here for the song.

New City Catechism Question 21 and Question 22

Student Ministry Schedule

We are meeting for small groups in the month of August and will reevaluate around Labor Day. The session voted to cancel the church’s retreats for the fall so we will not be going on our annual End of Summer Retreat but we are working on what we might be able to do in town for some extra connection with students.

Middle School- Wednesdays from 6:00-7:00PM at Faith [in the Plaza]

High School- Sundays from 6:00-7:00 at Faith [in the Plaza]

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What Happens if You Stop Being Bored?

“Boredom opens the door for us to contemplate rather than consume—to reflect instead of rushing.”

“I’m bored!” How often have you heard this statement from your kids? How often have you heard it 10 seconds after you finished doing something? How often have you felt it yourself? The ability to constantly be entertained has caused us to lose some things. Those moments of quiet boredom are what often lead to reflection, creativity, and relief from the constant influx of information and stimulation. I struggle with this too- to be ok with a few minutes of quiet without listening to something, reading something, or watching something. Scripture calls us to “Be still and know that I am God”. But this is not our instinct. Our natural inclination is to be entertained. So it will take work- work on our part and our kids’ part- to practice stillness and quiet in order to benefit from how God can use that time in our hearts and minds.

Click here to read the article by Justin Poythress.

Christians: Don’t Date Non-Christians

As I talk to students, or even my own kids, about what to look for in someone to date, it can be hard to simply explain the reason why God encourages us not to hitch ourselves to unbelievers. Even for many Christian students, this is not the first thing they look for in someone to date, yet it seems to be one of the most foundational things God’s Word encourages them to consider. I think this article does a good job of starting at the beginning with why dating and marrying a Christian is so important for Christians. It may be something worth reading with your teenager, or at least using as a good starting point for you in this kind of conversation with them.

Click here to read the article by JD Greear.

RESOURCE: Between Us Guys: Life-changing Conversations for Dads & Sons

This is a new guide for dads to go through with their sons. It includes 14 conversations for you to have with your son over multiple topics including friends, identity, love, failure, money, girls, sex, heaven and more [as well as appendices answering questions like “What is the Gospel?” and “How do I share the gospel with my son?”]. Each conversation includes Scripture, questions for dads and their sons to answer, and ideas for fun things to do to reinforce the conversations. This is a great way to begin discipleship between dads and sons. I’m looking forward to starting this with Carter and he’s looking forward to the chance for us to have some meaningful time, just the two of us.

**There is also a version for conversations between moms and daughters called Between Us Girls that Kelly enjoyed doing with Emily awhile back.

Click here to check out Between Us Guys by Joel Fitzpatrick.

KIDS MUSIC: Jesus Kids

If you are looking for some good music to listen to with your kids, this is a great album that includes catechisms, a song for all the books of the Bible, and original songs. I really like Jesus Only! Below is the Spotify link but you can also listen to it on other streaming services or purchase the music.

Click here to listen to the Jesus Kids album by Shai Linne on Spotify.

8-14-20 This Week in Faith

This is a little bit longer Welcome Back to School edition…

Pray for Me 2020 Campaign

In September, we will begin year 2 of the Pray for Me Campaign. This is a great way for our church to pray for our young people, and connect our young people to the adults in our church. Prayer is a powerful means by which God works in the hearts of our kids. And research shows that relationships with multiple adults in the church are one of the strongest indicators of whether or not students will hold on to their faith after high school. Our goal through this campaign is to have every young person, kindergarten through 12 grade, prayed for by someone in our church. Our hope is that you will participate by praying for someone also. Not only is it a privilege for us to pray but an opportunity to fulfill our vows to help each other raise the kids of our church in the fear and admonition of the Lord. You can sign up to continue to pray for your prayer partner from last year, get partnered with someone new, or join the campaign for the first time by CLICKING HERE.

August Memory for Kids

Even though we are not doing Sunday school right now, we want to continue offering monthly memory verses and catechisms for you to work on as a family. We have been choosing our memory verses from different CD’s produced by Seeds Family Worship. The music is a great way for kids [and parents] to get Scripture stuck in their heads. Getting God’s Word into the heads and hearts of our kids is one of the most valuable things we can do for them. This year, we are using their CD I Believe. They are also producing an online family devotional for these verses that you can find HERE. If you don’t already do family devotions, this might be a great place to start.

John 3:36- Click here for the song.

New City Catechism Question 21 and Question 22

Student Ministry Schedule

We are meeting for small groups in the month of August and will reevaluate around Labor Day. The session voted to cancel the church’s retreats for the fall so we will not be going on our annual End of Summer Retreat but we are working on what we might be able to do in town for some extra connection with students.

Middle School- Wednesdays from 6:00-7:00PM at Herman C. Michael Park

High School- Sundays from 6:00-7:00 at Harris Shoals Park

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The Most Important Lesson Parents Teach

“What do you think is the most important thing I want for you in your life?” This is the question this article has inspired me to ask each of my kids this week. I’ll be honest, I’m nervous about their responses. As much as I hope they will answer “To know and follow Jesus for the rest of my life”, I also realize that my desire to communicate so many things to my kids might, sometimes, dilute the most important message I want them to get. What an important admonition to daily, in the midst of all the other things we want to encourage in our kids, keep our greatest desire for them front and center- that we want their lives to be forever changed by the grace and mercy of Jesus for them through the cross.

Click here to read the article by Melissa Kruger.

10 Things to Pray for…

As we begin another school year, Rooted Ministry is producing prayer lists that can help us focus as we pray for students, teachers & schools, and more. There’s also 10 things to pray for Youth workers and I know myself, Madison and the rest of our student ministry leaders would appreciate those too!

Ten Things to Pray for Students

Ten Things to Pray for Teachers, Schools and Leaders

Ten Things to Pray for Youth Ministers

The Blessings of Parenting

Sometimes it’s hard to appreciate the stage our kids are in. We long for when they will be more capable of certain things or look back at the way they used to be. But God gives us the opportunity each day to value our kids for who they are right now, even in their limitations. While this article focuses mostly on younger kids, it reminds us of a principle important for parents with kids of all ages. What is God teaching you about your kids, and yourself, through this current season of parenting?

Click here to read the article by Rob and Stephanie Green.

Understanding Teen Anxiety and Depression

As our kids head back to school, anxiety and depression may spike. The statistics are startling for what teenagers are dealing with today. And this article helps us as parents to understand what our teenagers might be facing, while giving us some basic tools for how to respond. Listening with compassion to what they are going through, assuring them they are not alone in these struggles, and working together to find the best treatment are all ways we can respond to help them know we are for them as we face these challenges with them, together.

Click here to read the article by David Murray.

PODCAST: How to Prioritize Family Discipleship, an Interview with Matt Chandler

This is a great interview with some helpful thoughts on parenting in general, and discipling your family in particular. One of the things I’ve thought the most about from this interview is preparing your kids to feel different in the world because of what they believe. Often, one of our greatest hopes for our kids is that they will be accepted and fit in. But the reality is they will not be able to hold to a distinctively Christian faith and practice, and fit comfortably in the mainstream of their peers. This is something that can be shocking if they are not prepared for it, when they realize the beliefs they have been raised with are in the minority within the entertainment they consume and the friends they sit with in class. Yet our hope is that they will be shaped by the gospel much more than the world around them. There are some great reminders of what we can do to pour courage into our kids for the opposition they will inevitable face for their beliefs.

Click here to listen to the interview from Gospelbound.

7-9-20 This Week in Faith

A couple quick reminders:

THE GROVE

July Memory Verse- Psalm 46:10

Here is the link to the song from Seeds.

Camp in a Box

With no VBS this year, this could be a great alternative. Camp in a BoxTM is a remarkable day-camp experience shipped straight to your doorstep! You get 5 full days of activities and games – everything from science experiments, outdoor rec, crafts, and online worship. It’s a remarkable experience your whole family will never forget! Click here to learn more about Camp in a Box. Click here to register and select the top option. And if you use the promo code “Faithpca30“ when you purchase it, you’ll get $30 off per box [this code is only for Faith families so please don’t post the code on social media but you may share the code with a family you invite to do Camp in a Box with you that is unchurched].

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Grace for the Non-Supermom

Here is some gospel encouragement for weary parents.

Click here for the article by Jenny Lisa.

How to Start a Gospel Conversation after Watching a Movie

As you’ve probably noticed, I love movies. And we’ve been watching a lot of them lately as our family has been home and around more. This article is a good reminder of the power of stories and how they can create easy entry points into gospel conversations- whether it’s with your friends, unbelieving neighbor, or your kids. One of my favorite parts of going to movies with friends is standing around afterwards and talking about them. I hope this article leads you to enjoy a good movie and have an even better conversation as a result.

Click here to read the article by Catherine Parks.

I’m Thinking it Over

“To post or not to post…that is the question!” We live in a time when people are convinced that it is a virtue to say something about everything, and say it quickly. And yet, the book of James admonishes us to be “slow to speak, quick to listen, and slow to get angry.” This article reminds us that we don’t have to say something about everything and that our abiltiy to respond slowly is a way of valuing the truth. His list of 8 things to think about before you comment are good [I don’t have to spend my time in environments that press me to speak without knowledge, If I can bring rot an issue heat, but not light, it is probably best that I remain silent…]. We live in a challenging time for public dialogue and, even though this article is a few years old, it has some good recommendations that would be especially good to talk about wit your kids who spend time on social media.

Click here to read tea article by Alan Jacobs.

KIDS BOOK SERIES: The Rwendigo Tales

This is a 4 book series Emily read a while back and really enjoyed. She has friends who live in Africa and this helped her understand a little more of the world they live in. And they are compelling stories written by a missionary doctor for her kids as they serve in East Africa.

Click here to read about the series and watch an introductory video.

7-2-20 This Week in Faith

A couple quick reminders:

THE GROVE

July Memory Verse- Psalm 46:10

Here is the link to the song from Seeds.

Camp in a Box

With no VBS this year, this could be a great alternative. Camp in a BoxTM is a remarkable day-camp experience shipped straight to your doorstep! You get 5 full days of activities and games – everything from science experiments, outdoor rec, crafts, and online worship. It’s a remarkable experience your whole family will never forget! Click here to learn more about Camp in a Box. Click here to register and select the top option. And if you use the promo code “Faithpca30“ when you purchase it, you’ll get $30 off per box [this code is only for Faith families so please don’t post the code on social media but you may share the code with a family you invite to do Camp in a Box with you that is unchurched].

STUDENT MINISTRY

Summer Sprint- Tuesday-Thursday from 6-10PM of Next Week!

Each night we’ll do a fun activity, eat, then watch a video from the Rush Conference and talk about it in small groups. We’ll finish at my house each night [1321 Collier’s Creek Road, Watkinsville].

  • Tuesday- Meet at University 16 Theaters at 5:45 [bring $ for snacks at the theater if you want]

  • Wednesday- Meet at the Brooks’ for a cookout, outdoor fun, and a service project

  • Thursday- Meet at 12 Oaks pool [1030 Twelve Oaks Circle, Watkinsville]

Summer Small Groups

Join us as we hang out at the park and study the Psalms.

High School- Sundays at 1PM at Harris Shoals Park

Middle School- Wednesdays at 6:30PM or Thursdays at 1PM at Herman C. Michael Park or Wednesdays at 6PM on Zoom.

And now onto the blog…

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The Father who Wants to be Known

We often hear the power that fathers have in the life of their kids and this is a powerful reminder of the impact we can have on our kids and their faith. I was recently talking with a friend who did not grow up knowing his dad but was reconnected with him in the last few years. It was interesting listening to him talk about not knowing basic stories about his dad and what life had been like for his dad, that many of us take for granted knowing. So the way he is getting to know his dad is through asking his dad to tell him stories about his life. But it begins with our relationship with our heavenly Father. I hope this will be an encouragement to you as you seek to know God more and as you work to be known by your kids more fully.

Click here to read the article by Pete Alwinson.

Teenagers and Technology

I have asked myself many times over the last few months- “What has happened to all of our typical rules for technology in our house?”. This is obviously a unique time but I’ve wondered if we are handling it ok in our house. This article is encouraging, not just because it helped assuage my guilt over our kids spending way more time than usual on technology :), but it gives some helpful measures to consider as we think about the health of our kids and try to keep pour households going at the same time. It’s helping me think about how to approach July and the last half of the summer.

Click here to read the article by Kara Powell and Tyler Greenway.

Summer reading: A Grade-by-Grade Recommended Reading List for Kids

This is quite a list but I’m always looking for lists of books to consider, especially ones that are divided by age and grade.

Click here to see the list.

VIDEO: Interview with Harvard Education Professor Nancy Hill

This interview is a little bit different but I enjoyed it. It’s about 18 minutes long and includes some interesting research on parenting, as well as some of Professor Nancy Hill’s own story of how her faith has grown over the years, her experience in different types of churches, and what it’s like to be a Christian professor at Harvard. She also talks about what she’s learned through parenting her own kids.

Click here to watch the interview from The Veritas Forum.

PODCAST: Talking with Your Kids About Jesus

This was an interesting, 30 minute conversation, with good ideas on how to encourage faith in our kids.

Click here to listen to the Breakpoint interview with Natasha Crain.